glory. “I’m doing this. I’m showing you what I’ve never let you see before, not even when we went on vacation because I never went swimming if you were around.”
I start poking at my belly, squeezing the cellulite my thighs. “This is all me. This is my body and that’s all it is. I am worth more than this. This body does not dictate how much love I get or how much respect I’ll get or how smart I am or how kind I am or how far I’ll get in life. It doesn’t dictate who loves me and it doesn’t dictate who finds me attractive.”
My dad has turned away in embarrassment of seeing his daughter in her underwear, while my mom looks like she’s watching a horror show but I keep going. I run my hands over my scars. “These scars tell a story. They tell the story of my body, how I was flattened by a truck and how my body found the strength to survive and keep going. It found the strength to walk again and live again. My body did all of that. So if you’re going to equate worth with someone’s body, lets focus on that.”
I feel wild. I feel wild and so free. My heart is going a mile a minute, the adrenaline pumping through me. “And one more thing!” I look at my mother dead in the eyes. “I had a man that I loved and I lost but that doesn’t mean I’m a failure. Padraig was worth every single second I was with him. He was worth giving my heart to and even if things don’t work out in the end, I’m a better person for loving him.”
And with that, I bend down, gather up my clothes and head upstairs, wiggling my ass as I go.
“She’s lost her mind,” I hear my mother say in shock.
Yeah, well anytime you talk about the truth, there are people who will call you crazy.
Later that night I’m at my desk in my old room. I was scrolling through Facebook and Twitter and Instagram earlier, something I never did when I was in Shambles, but everyone’s fake perfect lives get too much for me so I put my phone away. I don’t have any texts or emails from Padraig either, not that I thought I would. Agnes said she would try and email me daily to keep me updated on his progress but so far there’s nothing from her either.
I’m all cried out over him and over the fight with mother and I don’t know if I have anything else left in me. But even so, I pull out my laptop and open a new word document and stare at the blank white page.
Somehow I think there’s a story in me somewhere. A story about a girl and her life in shambles.
I start writing.
I write and I write until there’s a knock at my door.
“Come in,” I say, expecting to see my father.
I’m shocked to see my mother.
“Can I come in?” she says. She’s holding a plate of cookies in her hand. “I made you some cookies.”
“Are you trying to make things up to me or is this a trap?” I ask. My mother never grovels or admits she’s wrong, so the fact that she’s here makes me wary.
“It’s not a trap. Can I come in?” she asks again, this time there’s something soft and pleading in her voice.
“Sure,” I say with a sigh.
She puts the tray of cookies before me on the desk and my stomach growls at the sight of them. I haven’t eaten anything since the shitty breakfast on the plane this morning.
She then sits down on my bed and clasps her hands in her lap, her shoulders slumped. She looks so small, like a child. I don’t remember the last time I’ve seen her so meek.
“I know you hate me,” she starts off saying. “And I don’t blame you. But I just wanted to talk to you.”
“I don’t hate you.”
“You should hate me.” She starts wringing her hands together. “I hate me. I’ve been so horrible to you and I’m so sorry. I deserve all the hate I get.”
I sigh loudly. “I said I don’t hate you. Okay? But yeah, you’ve been horrible. You’re often really shitty to me, to Angie, to Sandra, even to Dad. And, you know, we all still love you, because you can have shitty people in your family and still love them regardless of that.” I pause.