the bathroom I’d built for her.
“Daisy Nabhitha Kittredge,” I said, taking her hand in mine, “I love the hell out of you. Will you marry me?”
She said, “I could want a baby. Don’t know why. They’re nothing but trouble.”
Now, we were both laughing. “We can have a baby,” I said. “We can have three. I’m not going to lose my mind, remember? I’ll be around. That means half the trouble will be mine.”
“Even if she’s a girl?” she said. “Another girl?”
“Hey,” I said. “Don’t knock girls. Girls are awesome.”
“They’re sweet,” she said, “and they smell good.”
“That’s right,” I said. “They’re strong, too. Girls kick ass.”
“A girl, then,” she said, “and a boy. But only because half the trouble will be yours. And only because you’ll be such a good father.”
“I’ll be an old father,” I said, “if you don’t let me up off this floor. Quartz tile. Hard as hell.”
Her face was lit up like Christmas. She was laughing, and so was I, when I put that ring on her finger, and when I took her head in my hands and kissed her, she was smiling still.
Daisy Nabhitha Kittredge. That was her name. She’d chosen it herself.
Maybe she’d even change it.
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A Kiwi Glossary
A few notes about Maori pronunciation:
The accent is normally on the first syllable.
All vowels are pronounced separately.
All vowels except u have a short vowel sound.
“wh” is pronounced “f.”
“ng” is pronounced as in “singer,” not as in “anger.”
across the Ditch: in Australia (across the Tasman Sea). Or, if you're in Australia, in New Zealand!
agro: aggravation
air con: air conditioning
All Blacks: National rugby team.
ambo: paramedic
Aotearoa: New Zealand (the other official name, meaning “The Land of the Long White Cloud" in Maori)
Aussie, Oz: Australia. (An Australian is also an Aussie. Pronounced “Ozzie.”)
Babygro: onesie
bach: holiday home (pronounced like “bachelor”)
backs: rugby players who aren't in the scrum and do more running, kicking, and ball-carrying—though all players do all jobs and play both offense and defense. Backs tend to be faster, leaner, and more glamorous than forwards.
barney: argument, fight
bench: counter (kitchen bench)
berko: berserk
Big Smoke: the big city (usually Auckland)
bikkies: cookies
billy-o, like billy-o: like crazy. “I paddled like billy-o and just barely made it through that rapid.”
bin, rubbish bin: trash can
binned: thrown in the trash
bit of a dag: a comedian, a funny guy
bits and bobs: stuff (“be sure you get all your bits and bobs”)
bollocks: rubbish, nonsense
boofhead: fool, jerk
booking: reservation
boots and all: full tilt, no holding back
bot, the bot: flu, a bug
box of birds: everything’s fine (this is more of a rural South Island saying)
box of fluffy ducks: everything’s even finer
Boxing Day: December 26—a holiday
brekkie: breakfast
brilliant: fantastic
bub: baby, small child
buggered: messed up, exhausted
bull's roar: close. “They never came within a bull's roar of winning.”
bunk off: duck out, skip (bunk off school)
bust a gut: do your utmost, make a supreme effort
caravan: travel trailer
cardie: a cardigan sweater
chat up: flirt with
chilly bin: ice chest
chips: French fries. (potato chips are “crisps”)
chocolate bits: chocolate chips
chocolate fish: pink or white marshmallow coated with milk chocolate, in the shape of a fish. A common treat/reward for kids (and for adults. You often get a chocolate fish on the saucer when you order a mochaccino—a mocha).
choice: fantastic
chokka: full
chooks: chickens
Chrissy: Christmas
chuck out: throw away
chuffed: pleased
cinder: gravel
collywobbles: nervous tummy, upset stomach
come a greaser: take a bad fall
cot: crib (for a baby)
crook: ill
cuddle: hug (give a cuddle)
cuppa: a cup of tea (the universal remedy)
CV: resumé
cyclone: hurricane (Southern Hemisphere)
dairy: corner shop (not just for milk!)
dead: very; e.g., “dead sexy.”
dill: fool
do your block: lose your temper
dob in: turn in; report to authorities. Frowned upon.
doco: documentary
doddle: easy. “That'll be a doddle.”
dodgy: suspect, low-quality
dogbox: The doghouse—in trouble
dole: unemployment.
dole bludger: somebody who doesn’t try to get work and lives off unemployment (which doesn’t have a time limit in NZ)
Domain: a good-sized park; often the “official” park of the town.
dressing gown: bathrobe
drongo: fool (Australian, but used sometimes in NZ as well)
drop your gear: take off your clothes
duvet: comforter
earbashing: talking-to, one-sided chat
electric jug: electric teakettle to heat water. Every Kiwi kitchen has one.
En Zed: Pronunciation of NZ. (“Z” is pronounced “Zed.”)
ensuite: master bath (a bath in the bedroom).
eye fillet: premium steak (filet mignon)
fa soifua: goodbye (Samoan)
fair go: a fair chance. Kiwi ideology: everyone deserves a fair go.
fair wound me up: Got me very upset
fantail: small, friendly native bird
farewelled, he'll be farewelled: funeral; he’ll have his funeral.
feed, have a feed: meal
fizz, fizzie: soft drink
fizzing: fired up
flaked out: tired
flash: fancy
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