and when their friend laughs or sighs they’ll add a bit, or leave off the part that makes the deceased person look a little bit bad. At the end of it all, the real life dies back little by little, and in its place you have only a bunch of make-believe stories about the person who lived it. If you want to keep the flame of a life burning, you simply don’t speak of it. Something that isn’t talked about never changes. And that, I can tell you for a fact, is God’s honest truth.
I’d prefer to talk about Eddy.
That last spring we were all together—before school and the army took the boys away—Eddy’s face had been real, real red all the time. He’d begun to sweat so much that he took to carrying around a kerchief in his pocket that he used to wipe away the beads of perspiration that popped up like pearls on his forehead. Always he had been a hot-tempered man, but lately he reminded me of those cartoon thermometers they show on the television weather reports on the hottest summer days, with the red pushing against the top and droplets flying out like the whole thing is melting. Well, there wasn’t any telling that man that he ought to see a doctor. Unless you wanted the upbraiding of your life, you just left him alone. We all knew the art of that.
One evening, he and I were sitting in the den next to the kitchen, watching television. Eddy was sitting in the plaid chair that later turned into Elias’s, and I sat in the other one, crocheting on a blanket for Candy’s John, I suppose. He would have been the baby then. It was an April night, and it wasn’t warm, but Eddy mopped down his face and leaned forward to see the TV better. It was some program on The History Channel, some war thing. All of a sudden I guess he got fed up with whatever they were saying, because he picked up the remote and said something in a disgusted voice and changed the channel. That was all right, except I didn’t understand a word he was saying.
“Come again?” I asked him.
He looked me in the eye and he babbled off something different this time. It was a normal conversation voice he was using, but it was like baby words coming from his mouth, just nonsense. He shook his head, then tried again, but the words still didn’t come out right. I kept my face steady so he wouldn’t get mad at me and think I was mocking him. But I thought that was awful strange. Sometimes if he was drinking he didn’t make a lot of sense, but at least the words he used would string together all right, even if the thoughts didn’t.
That happened another time maybe a week later, at dinner. He was correcting Matthew on his manners, pointing a finger at him, when halfway through the sentence it all turned into gibberish. From the look on his face you could tell he knew, and it didn’t make any more sense to him than to the rest of us. Everybody looked around at each other, but nobody said a word about it. By then I’d looked it up in The Merck Manual we kept in the side table in the front room. It was an old one, but then, so was Eddy. From that I knew that if a person had speech problems that come out of nowhere, it might be a stroke. I watched him as we ate, saw the confusion behind his eyes, and I confess I felt a hard kernel inside me—almost an excitement, or maybe gloating. All those times he’d yelled at me when I told him he ought to get a physical, all those years he’d spent trading on this idea of himself as a hard-tempered man who’d scrap with anyone for anything—perhaps now, here at this dinner table, we’d arrived at the spoils of it. You know, deep down in the heart of hearts—no matter how Christian a person is or how much they say they forgive their enemy—everybody wants to see the justice of God. It would be like pure clear water on a hot day, to have lived with an injustice for so long, to have stood by watching as somebody with a bad soul got a good life, and then to suddenly see the payment come due for that person.