the band?”
He said, “I told you I didn’t want to do this forever.”
I said, “You never said that.”
He said, “I’ve said that a thousand times to you. I told you this stuff doesn’t matter.”
I said, “You’re talking about giving all of this up for Jenny? Really?”
He said, “Not really for Jenny. For me. So I can get on with my life.”
I said, “What does that mean?”
He said, “I never wanted to be in a soft rock band. C’mon. You know that. I got on the train, I rode it for a little while. But my stop’s coming up.”
Daisy: Nicky and I got into a fight in the hotel room in Italy. He accused me of sleeping with Billy back in Kansas. I had no idea what he was even talking about. I didn’t even talk to Billy in Kansas. But he said he’d known for weeks and he was sick of watching me try to hide it. Things got intense, really quickly. I threw a few bottles at him. He smashed his hand through the window. I remember looking down and seeing gray tears falling down my face. They were stained with my mascara and eyeliner. I don’t remember exactly how it happened but one of my hoops got ripped out of my ear. Cut clear through. I was bleeding and crying and the room was trashed. And the next thing I know Nicky is holding me and we’re promising to never leave each other’s side and never fight like that again and I remember thinking, If this is what love is like, maybe I don’t want it.
Rod: We had booked Daisy’s flight to get in a full day early for the show in Seattle. I had her come in early because I was nervous she’d miss her flight and I needed to make sure we had a margin of error.
Daisy: The morning we were supposed to fly to Seattle, I woke up and Nicky was sitting over me. I realized I was soaking wet, sleeping in the base of the shower. I was groggy and confused but by that point I always woke up groggy and confused. I said, “What happened?”
He said, “I thought maybe you overdosed. On the Seconals or something. I couldn’t remember what else we took.” You know what happens when people overdose on Seconals? They die.
I said, “So you put me in the shower?”
He said, “I tried to wake you up. I didn’t know what else to do. You wouldn’t wake up. I was so scared.”
I looked at him and my heart just sank. Because, while I have no idea whether or not I overdosed or what exactly happened that night, I could tell he had been truly terrified.
And all he did was put me in the shower.
My husband believed I might die. And he didn’t so much as even call the concierge.
A switch flipped in me. It was like one of those breaker switches … Like on a circuit box. You know how they take a lot of pressure to flip? But then once they catch, they switch over with force? I switched over. I knew, right then and there, that I needed to get away from this person. That I had to take care of myself. Because if I didn’t …
He wasn’t gonna kill me but he would let me die.
I said, “Okay, thank you for watching me.” I said, “You must be tired. Why don’t you take a nap?” And then, when he was asleep, I packed all my things. I took both plane tickets and I went to the airport. When I got there, I found a pay phone. I called the hotel. I said, “I need to leave a message for Niccolo Argento in room 907.”
The lady said okay. Actually, she probably said, “Bene.”
I said, “Write, ‘Lola La Cava wants a divorce.’ ”
Warren: When we all got back after hiatus, that show in Seattle … Daisy seemed, I don’t know, lucid.
I said, “Where’s Niccolo?”
And Daisy said, “That period of my life is over.” That was it. End of discussion. I thought that was badass.
Simone: She called me and said she’d left Niccolo in Italy and I started clapping.
Karen: She started making sense when you were talking to her. She started showing up clearheaded to sound checks.
Daisy: I would not, unfortunately, use the word sober. But you know what? I showed up places on time. I did start doing that.
Billy: I don’t think I had realized just how much of her