always there, but the struggles are there, and they are often greater than the whole, and they can chip away at a person, at a child, at a husband, at a wife. If something gets chipped away at enough, holes get created and those holes get bigger and bigger over the years.
Did I want to do that? God no.
But would I struggle at some point? Without a doubt.
I was still young. I wasn’t a virgin. I hadn’t been waiting for Cut, but I had been at the same time.
There were a few boyfriends, but no one serious. They never lasted long and again, never serious. These questions and self-doubts didn’t come into play because those guys weren’t my forever guy.
Cut was.
Cut could be.
Or, Cut could’ve been.
And now I was thinking myself into circles.
Actually, I was torturing myself into circles.
I was at work. There was a meeting going on. Dean’s voice was droning on, and I was doodling. I could do that. Sometimes it helped me channel so I could focus better, but I had to be honest with myself.
I was hurting, and I wanted Cut. I missed Cut.
I didn’t know what I was doing anymore, why I wasn’t calling him, texting him. Then I’d have to remind myself and here we were again, once more around the pass about how I couldn’t do to him what my mother had done to me. Not the same struggle, but a struggle nonetheless.
I was trying to justify all the reasons why I ran from him.
The reason was real. What I had, no one I loved should go through it with me. Sasha and Melanie were different. They had their own issues, and I was there for them. It was the same with me, but I also pulled back with them. They got it. They understood. I had my stuff, and I never wanted to burden anyone else with it, not too much. It’s not their problem to deal with. It’s mine.
I tried not to watch his away games. I hadn’t lasted on that. The puck dropped and I was scrambling to turn my television on.
My chest was burning because they were playing at home tonight, and I was trying to tell myself that I wasn’t going. But I was going. I already knew I was going. Why was I trying to lie to myself?
“—what do you think, Cheyenne?”
“Huh?” My pen dropped and I looked up.
Dean, Reba, and Boomer were all waiting for my answer.
I blinked, trying to remember. I had no clue. “What’d you say?”
Dean frowned, his eyebrows pinching together. “You okay?”
Reba grunted. “You get distracted at times, but you’ve been more the last few weeks.”
Reba was our other full-time worker, the one who worked, and went home to actually Netflix and chill. She was built like a trucker (her words) with the curliest hair I’d ever seen on someone before. She had dark auburn hair, and her curls were the type that had curls within the curls themselves. Getting a comb through them with product must be a nightmare for Reba, so she let it flow. She came to work and her hair was bouncing every which way. I loved it. The freer, the better, but today she had it pulled back under a red bandana.
I was missing the usual fray wildness. I connected with it in my core. Her hair was like all the things going on inside my own head.
But Reba handled all of our ordinances. She was the glue in the shelter. Dean and I were almost like decorative props in the building. If we didn’t have Reba, there would be no shelter. Sturdy and tough. I loved me some Reba, and if Reba was noticing my distraction and commenting on it, then I had to handle it because it was serious. Reba noticed a lot, but she didn’t comment on anything that wasn’t worth commenting on. She was a wise soul, and she never wasted her breath on something. It was her golden rule.
Boomer’s mouth turned in and his head went down.
Reba didn’t notice. “What is going on with you?” Her head twisted sideways, as if a new thought had just come to her. “You seeing someone? This seems like guy distraction.”
Guy distraction.
Aptly put.
I opened my mouth, but Boomer lifted his head up and said, “Let’s leave her alone. If she wanted us to know, she would’ve told us.” He gave Dean a pointed look. “You sure about switching distributors on some of our foods?”
Dean was still frowning,