You don't need to say anything to them about anything."
She had no answer to that. He was right.
They lay there in silence for a long time. She thought he was asleep. Then he spoke, a whisper just on the edge of voice. "We aren't just a man with children and a woman with children, sharing the same house, sharing the same children. Are we?"
"No, not just that," said Shedemei.
"I mean, how much does a husband have to desire his wife, sexually, for his feelings toward her to be love?"
She felt her way carefully toward an answer. "I don't know if the feelings have to be sexual at all," she said.
"Because I admire you so much. And the way you are with Rokya and Dabya, I ... delight in that. And the way you teach them, all the children. And the way you are with... with me. The way you're so kind to me."
"And what else would I do? Beat you? Scream at you? You're the most aggravatingly unannoying man I've ever known. You don't do anything wrong."
"Except that I don't satisfy you."
She shrugged. "I don't complain,"
"But I do love you. Like a sister. A friend. More than either of those, like a. ..."
"Like a wife," said Shedemei.
"Yes," said Zdorab. "Like that."
"And I love you as my husband, Zdorab. As you are. Like that." She rolled over, reached for him, kissed his cheek. "Like that," she said again. Then she rolled back onto her other side, her back to him, and soon enough she was asleep.
The dreams came, night after night, those last weeks before the starship Basilica was launched. And toward the end, one by one, the dreamers came to him.
Hushidh was first, telling him that the Oversoul was right, that the breach between him and Elemak would never be healed, so he had to be ready. "Don't keep your promise, either," she said, "Don't wake anybody up in midvoyage. It would be a disaster, when we're all confined in that tiny space together."
"Thanks for the suggestion," Nafai said.
"Ignore me if you want," said Hushidh. "You're the one with the cloak, after all."
"Don't snipe at me," said Nafai. "You're Luet's older sister, not mine."
"And we all know what fine specimens your older sisters are."
They both burst out laughing.
"Tell Luet for me," said Hushidh, "that once I made up my mind to obey the Oversoul and give my four oldest to you to raise during the voyage, I found that the bonds between Luet and me returned, as strong as ever. The barrier might have been her fault when it began. But it was my fault it wasn't healed till now."
"I'll tell her that," said Nafai. "But better if you tell her yourself."
"I knew you'd say that," said Hushidh. "That's why I hate you." She kissed his cheek and left.
Then Rasa and Volemak came to him together. "It was selfish of us to want to withhold our sons from you. They were born late," said Rasa. "This will be a way for them to catch up with their older brothers."
Volemak smiled thinly. "I'm not so interested in that as Rasa is. As usual, she thinks of people's feelings more than I do. I just remember all that we've given up to get this far, and how stupid it would be for us to repudiate the Oversoul now. There's such a thing as trust, Nafai. Don't risk the survival of the whole colony, particularly of your own family, solely in order to protect your own image of yourself as a man who always does the 'right' thing."
Nafai listened to his father but found no comfort in his words. "I lost that image of myself when I cut Gaballufix's head from his shoulders, Father. I've regretted that every day of my life since then. Foolish of me, wasn't it, to want to spare myself another source of guilt."
Volemak fell silent then, but Rasa did not. "Wallowing a bit, are we?" she said. "Well, Nafai, you're still young, so you still think the whole universe revolves around you. But the fact is it doesn't. The Oversoul has persuaded us that it's best if our youngest sons are kept awake for the voyage. Now it's up to you to decide if you have the courage to face down Elemak's anger when it's all done."
"And it doesn't matter to you that I gave him-that I gave everyone-my word that I wouldn't do this?"
"I am your father," said Volemak, "and Rasa is your mother. We release you