up to be. But imagine everyone’s surprise when I found that I loved writing about Alaska even more than I liked being there.
I became a journalism major and I worked hard at improving my interviewing techniques and imagery, as per the advice of most of my professors.
I graduated college a writer.
That’s the part that I knew killed Marie.
I was the writer of the family while she was in Acton, running the bookstore.
It had taken me a couple of years to get a job that sent me out on assignments, but by the age of twenty-five, I was an assistant editor at a travel blog, with a tiny salary but with the luxury of having visited five of the seven continents.
The downside was that Jesse and I had very little money. On the cusp of twenty-six, neither of us had health insurance and we were still eating saltines and peanut butter for dinner some nights.
But the upside was so much sweeter: Jesse and I had seen the world—both together and separately.
Jesse and I had talked about getting married. It was obvious to everyone, ourselves included, that we would have a wedding one day. We knew it was what we would do when the time was right, the way you know that once you shampoo your hair, you condition it.
So I was not shocked that Jesse wanted to marry me.
What shocked me was that there was any ring at all.
“I know it’s small,” he said apologetically as I put it on. “And it’s not a diamond.”
“I love it,” I told him.
“Do you recognize it?”
I gave it another glance, trying to discern what he meant.
It had a yellow-gold band with a round red stone in the middle. It was banged up and scratched, clearly secondhand. I loved it. I loved everything about it. But I didn’t recognize it.
“No?” I said.
“Are you sure?” he said, teasing me. “If you think about it for a second, I think you might.”
I stared again. But the ring on my finger was much less interesting to me than the man who had given it to me.
Jesse had grown up to be even more handsome than he had been cute. His shoulders had grown wider, his back more sturdy. No longer training, he had gained weight in his torso, but it was weight that fit him fine. His cheekbones stood out in almost any light. And his smile had matured in a way that made me think he’d be handsome late into life.
I was madly in love with him and had been for as long as I could remember. We had a deep and meaningful history together. It was Jesse who had held my hand when my parents were furious to find out I’d never sent in my application to the University of Massachusetts, and in doing so, had forced their hand to send me to California. It was Jesse who supported me when they asked me to move home after we graduated, Jesse who dried my tears when my father was heartbroken that I would not come home to help run the store. And it was also Jesse who helped me remain confident that, eventually, my parents and I would see eye-to-eye again one day.
The boy that I first saw that day at the swimming pool had turned into an honorable and kind man. He opened doors for me. He bought me Diet Coke and Ben & Jerry’s Chunky Monkey when I had a bad day. He took photos of all the places he’d been, all the places he and I had been together, and decorated our home with them.
And now, as we firmly settled into adulthood and the resentments of his childhood faded away, Jesse had started swimming long distance again. Not often, not regularly, but sometimes. He said he still couldn’t stand the chlorine smell of the pool, but he was starting to fall in love with the salt of the ocean. I was so enamored with him for that.
“I’m sorry,” I said. “I don’t think I’ve ever seen this ring before.”
Jesse laughed. “Barcelona,” he said. “The night of—”
I gasped.
He smiled, knowing that he didn’t need to finish the sentence.
“No . . .” I said.
He nodded.
We had just gotten into Barcelona on the Eurail from Madrid. There was a woman selling jewelry on the street. The two of us were exhausted and headed straight for our hostel. But the woman was hounding us to please take a look.
So we did.
I saw a ruby ring.
And I’d said