everything you know can be taken away in an instant.
Nevertheless, even if I didn’t suspect Fin to be both hostile and toxic, ‘I can’t stop obsessing that your younger sister could’ve so easily escaped her untimely end’ is not a remotely comforting or acceptable thing to say to anyone.
‘So. Regards the funeral,’ Fin says. There’s no trace of transatlantic in his voice. No Midlands either, but then the Harts are from the sort of postcode where everyone’s accent sounds posh-neutral to the point of southern. ‘You said you’ve not been able to confirm a date for it yet?’
‘Yes,’ I say, feeling the onus on me to take charge. I explain we should be able to, very soon. I describe the readings and the music choices and a rough order of service, and Fin nods, neutral, throughout.
‘I didn’t know if you wanted to do a reading?’ I ask him.
‘No, thank you,’ Fin says. I try not to judge this, without knowing his reasons, though obviously I’m judging it hard. It doesn’t help that he doesn’t elaborate why, beyond that curt confirmation.
‘As to the venue for the wake, there’s a hotel at the top of Derby Road called The Waltons. It’s chintzy and pretty, but not too stuffy. We thought that’d be fitting? It has a bar and we could put out a buffet. I don’t want it to be too youthful and like a party, but Susie would’ve hated something … fogeyish? For want of a better word.’
Fin nods. ‘The family will pay for this, obviously. Give us costs and if anything needs paying upfront, I’ll transfer to you straight away.’
I nod back. Just as I think this is going to pass off without controversy, I say (congratulating myself this is a thoughtful touch, he will appreciate it): ‘We called the church about the churchyard where your mum was buried, and they have a plot free for Susie.’
I can’t believe I’m saying these words. She is arriving fifty years ahead of schedule.
‘It’s not right by your mum, but it’s very near. Under a tree, which seemed …’ I was going to say nice, and realise that there’s nothing nice about this whatsoever. ‘A good idea.’
‘I don’t want her to be buried,’ Fin says. ‘Absolutely not.’
I startle. ‘What? Why?’
‘It’s how I feel,’ he says, fixing intense eyes on me. ‘I hate the thought of her rotting in the ground. She’d agree. Cremation only.’
‘I think … Susie would like the thought of being near her mum, though,’ I say.
Fin’s eyes focus harder upon me. He clears his throat.
‘I don’t think Susie would’ve liked the thought of any of this. Imputing “liking” things to her seems slightly mad, given the situation. There’s only least worsts. The least worst to her would’ve been cremation, in my opinion.’
I am horribly stung by being called ‘slightly mad’, which would be hurtful any time, but in this context is like he kicked me while I was on the floor.
Only a pass the size of his loss can stop me openly losing it, in return.
‘Erm, OK, but I knew her well, too, and I am sure she’d … want burial.’
‘With all due respect—’ Fin starts.
A phrase that only ever means ‘which is none.’
‘… You can’t be sure. Did you ever discuss which method of disposal she’d prefer, should she die suddenly?’
‘No, obviously not, but …’
‘Right, well. Neither did Susie and I. But we aren’t a religious family, and we aren’t a burials family. My mother’s was something of an anomaly.’
Oh, of course. The fight. He’s rerunning it. People don’t change. Bastards gonna bastard, I hear Susie say.
I’m left uselessly opening and closing my mouth. Purely at a debating level, it seems to me Fin should’ve picked a lane – he says it matters he’d rather she was cremated, while also saying Susie would agree. Which is it? Especially as you two disagreed on what colour the sky was, from what I can gather.
I hadn’t – stupidly, perhaps – expected him to pull rank. I feel as if I’m letting Susie down by allowing Fin to prevail, and that feeling is powerful.
‘But …’ I begin.
‘If you want cremation, and you’re her surviving relative, then that’s what should happen,’ Ed interrupts, with a pointed look at me, which communicates: let this go.
‘Her surviving relative who’s compos mentis, anyway,’ Fin says.
As I’m about to ask if he’s checked in on his dad, and what state he’s in, Fin’s phone rings and he says: ‘I’ve got to take this. Thanks for everything you’ve