at least twice a week, often staying to chat. Whiskers sat in her lap a couple of times, just to show he approves of my choice of a friend.
Mom loves hearing stories about my customers. We talk nearly every day. She needs that and frankly, so do I. I might be thirty years old but a girl never outgrows her need for her mother.
"Margaret and the girls will be here at one," Mom said conversationally, but I wasn't fooled. She was giving me fair warning. She set her china cup in the saucer and rested her hands in her lap. My mother possesses a natural grace I envy. Margaret's a great deal like her in that regard.
I'm not sure how to describe my mother. One might well assume she's as fragile as she looks, but that's not the case. She's strong in ways I can only admire. She was a fierce advocate for me in dealing with the doctors and the insurance company during my bouts with cancer. She's loving and generous and constantly tries to meet the needs of others. Her one drawback is in coping with sickness. She couldn't bear to see me - or anyone else - suffer and tended to simply withdraw. Fortunately, Dad was always there for me.
"Are Julia and Hailey coming with Margaret?" I asked. My two nieces are a source of wonder to me. The likelihood of my ever bearing children was slim to none, so my sister's daughters hold an important place in my heart. Margaret seemed to sense this and, for whatever reason, jealously guarded her daughters, keeping them away from me as much as possible.
Julia and Hailey, however, recognized my genuine affection and much to Margaret's consternation, loved me unabashedly. Their undiluted joy at every chance encounter rankled Margaret so much that she did whatever she could to block my access to my nieces.
"Grandma!" Nine-year-old Hailey loped into the backyard, her arms extended. When she saw me, she squealed with delight and after hugging my mother, vaulted into my arms, nearly strangling me in her enthusiasm.
Fourteen-year-old Julia was a bit more restrained, but her eyes revealed her pleasure at seeing me. I stretched out my free arm to her and when she stepped toward me, we clasped hands and I squeezed her fingers. How tall Julia had grown, more woman than child now, and such a beauty. My heart swelled with pride at the sight of her.
"Aunt Lydia, will you teach me how to knit?" Hailey begged, still clinging to me.
I looked over my shoulder just in time to see my sister and brother-in-law come out the back door and onto the patio where I sat with my mother and the girls. From the frown Margaret wore, I could see she'd heard the question. "I'd love to teach you, but it's up to your mother."
"We'll talk about it later," Margaret said sharply. Hailey placed her arm around my shoulders, unwilling to release me.
"Hello, Matt," I said.
My brother-in-law grinned and winked at me. I remember when Matt and Margaret first started dating. Because she's five years older than me, I viewed seventeen-year-old Matt as mature and sophisticated, a man of the world. They'd married young and my father disapproved, believing Margaret should wait until she'd graduated from college. She did finish her schooling but hasn't used her education in the way Dad wanted. My sister has worked at a number of jobs through the years but she's never found any position that's really suited her. Margaret is currently employed part-time at a travel agency, but she's never discussed her job with me. I do applaud her decision to be home as much as possible for the girls, but I've avoided sharing my thoughts, uncertain of their reception.
After a brief exchange of chitchat and news, we drove out to the cemetery in two cars. Mom had brought a large bouquet of lilacs from her garden, and Julia and Hailey set them in the receptacle at my father's gravesite. A large number of American flags flapped in the wind across the cemetery, reminding us of the men and women who sacrificed their lives for our country.
I've always found cemeteries curious places. As a child, I had an almost ghoulish fascination with tombstones. I especially enjoyed reading the epitaphs on those from the 1800s and early 1900s. While Margaret and my parents paid their respects to my grandparents, I'd invariably wander off. I broke my leg when I was five when a statue of