watching the Niners game with feigned interest with Mr. Nick and the boys until Miss Dina called us in to eat.
There was a ritual once we were at the table, a choreographed scene that Dad and I followed carefully: everyone sat in their chairs and linked hands. Mr. Nick said grace, and then everyone went around in turn and said something they were thankful for this year.
George was thankful for making varsity track.
Miss Dina was thankful for her healthy baby girl (who slept quietly in a vibrating baby chair near the table).
Nick Jr. was thankful that he was nearly done with his first semester of college, because, man, it sucked.
Dad was thankful for a good year in business and a wonderful daughter.
Andreas was thankful for his girlfriend, Amie.
Mr. Nick was thankful for his boys, and his—now two—girls. He winked at his wife.
Elliot was thankful for the Sorensen family, and especially for Macy, who he missed during the week when she was back home.
I sat, staring at him and trying to find something else to say, something as good as that.
I focused on a spot on the table as I spoke, my words wavering. “I’m thankful that high school isn’t terrible so far. I’m thankful I didn’t get Mr. Syne for math.” I looked up at Elliot. “But mostly, I’m thankful we bought this house, and that I was able to make a friend who wouldn’t make me feel weird for being sad about my mom, or wanting to be quiet, and who will always have to explain things to me twice because he’s so much smarter than I am. I’m thankful that his family is so nice, and his mom makes such good dinners, and Dad and I didn’t have to try to make a turkey all by ourselves.”
The table fell quiet, and I heard Miss Dina swallow a few times before she said brightly, “Perfect! Let’s eat!”
And the routine dissolved as frenzy took over, with four teenage boys diving into the food. Rolls were passed, turkey and gravy were slopped onto my plate, and I savored every single bite.
It wasn’t as good as Mom’s everyday cooking, and Mom was missing something she would have absolutely loved—a room full of boisterous family—but it was the best Thanksgiving I’d ever had. I didn’t even feel guilty for feeling that way, because I know Mom would want me to have more, and better, forever.
Back home later, Dad walked me upstairs, standing behind me and brushing my hair like he used to do while I brushed my teeth.
“I’m sorry I was so quiet tonight,” he said, haltingly.
I met his eyes in the mirror. “I like your kind of quiet. Your heart isn’t quiet.”
He bent, pressing his cheek to my temple, and smiled at me in the mirror. “You’re an amazing girl, Macy Lea.”
now
friday, october 13
More miraculous even than a full night’s sleep is the prospect of a full day off on a weekend. Getting a free Saturday feels like being ten years old and holding a twenty-dollar bill in a candy store. I don’t even know where to start.
Well, that’s not entirely true. I know I don’t want to spend a second of the day indoors. The Mission Bay site for UCSF Children’s has windows everywhere, but when you’re a pediatric resident, you don’t notice anything but the child in front of you, or your chief telling you where you need to be next.
Friday afternoon, on a short break after rounds, I remind Sean of our plans to picnic at Golden Gate Park. I call Sabrina, confirming that she, Dave, and Viv can all come. I invite a couple old friends from my Berkeley neighborhood who still live in the area—Nikki and Danny. And then I get back to work with the feeling of buzzing in my ears, static in my thoughts. I can’t leave this unfinished all day.
After delivering an update on some bloodwork to my current favorite parents, whose daughter is an inpatient in oncology, I sprint to the break room, ducking behind the locker to grab my phone and text Elliot.
A few of us are going to Golden Gate Park tomorrow for a picnic.
Think you’d want to come along?
What time were you thinking?
Was going to head up to H-burg for the afternoon but could be persuaded.
We’re meeting at eleven outside the botanical garden.
It’s totally fine if you can’t make it, I know it’s last minute.