The Happy Ever After Playlist - Abby Jimenez Page 0,110

“Well, we’ll be there in a half an hour to get you. What are you wearing? You better make an effort. I’m gonna be pissed if I talked you up for the last three days and then you show up looking half-homeless.”

“I’m wearing the red dress. I have makeup on. I’ve done my hair. I won’t bring shame upon your house.”

“Good. Don’t wear underwear. Goodbye.”

I snorted and hung up, shaking my head at the Verdugo Mountains through the window in my living room.

My new apartment was nice. It had a pool and a hot tub, and I had my own washer and dryer. It was newly remodeled too. I didn’t have things breaking all around me, which was a pleasant change. There was a dog park nearby and a Starbucks on the corner.

I was doing okay. I went to the gym, I got my nails done. I was tan. I took Tucker on walks and went to art shows and had Josh and Kristen over for dinner once a week—and I did the cooking. I did all of the things—and I was proud of myself.

I’d never gone to grief counseling after Brandon died. Kristen had begged me to go, but I had no interest in learning how to be okay without him. I didn’t want to talk about his death or share it with strangers. I didn’t need to bond with other people going through it to know I wasn’t alone. People died every day, unfairly and prematurely. My tragedy wasn’t anything special. I just wanted Brandon’s hold to let me go when it was ready to let me go. I wanted to feel that grief in its most organic way, like trying to take the edge off it would somehow be dishonoring what he meant to me. But somewhere along the line, it had let me go, and I hadn’t noticed because the tired listlessness that comes with grief had shifted into the kind that comes from losing yourself through depressing life choices—and I wasn’t repeating that mistake.

I wanted Jason’s hold to let me go. I was desperate to shake it. I wanted to do everything I could to make it stop—because he didn’t deserve any grief.

I’d allowed myself exactly one week of falling apart at Kristen’s before I pulled myself up through sheer will, found myself an apartment, and started painting. I slept. I updated my blog. I did yoga. I decorated my apartment and did things I loved—and I chose happiness.

There was a certain dullness to it, though. My “happiness” wasn’t always the real thing. Most of the time it was a fabricated, forced version that cracked around the edges if examined closely enough. But it was the choice that was the accomplishment. I’d finally found the me I’d lost before. I was strong—heartbroken, but stronger than I’d ever given myself credit for. Especially under the circumstances.

It was hard to come to terms with something that didn’t make sense, like a tragic untimely death or a breakup that came out of nowhere. How can you be at peace when you don’t know what you did to deserve it or what you could have done to make things different? I couldn’t wrap my brain around how I’d misjudged Jason to such a high degree, how I could think he was that in love with me, when clearly he wasn’t. It made me question my entire sense of self. Like finding out your hero isn’t a hero at all and you’re just too blind to know the difference.

Right after it happened, I’d had a moment of disbelief. Even though I’d seen Lola half-naked in his room with my own eyes and he’d confessed right to my face, my heart simply wouldn’t accept it, and I’d almost called him. Then I saw the picture of him with her on the motorcycle.

Jason had broken every single promise he’d ever made me. That was his choice. And mine was going to be to thrive despite it.

You can’t control the bad things that happen to you. All you can do is decide how much of you you’re going to let them take. I would be fooling myself if I said I didn’t still love him. I think I’d always be in love with him. But I refused to mourn him or give him a shrine.

Everyone around me knew talking about Jason was off-limits. No one ever mentioned what he was doing. Not even Ernie, during his many visits to check in on me.